How to achieve orgasm while giving a blowjob

Susan Crain Bakos is a sex therapist, sex journalist and author of many publications on the subject. Today she tells us how to have an orgasm while having oral sex with a guy. Here is an excerpt from her book “New Tantra”.

Diversify your sex life with fellatio that will rock your sex life and your partner. Time for modern women to kneel down not only for yoga, but to truly honor his penis.

Honor his dignity

Open veneration for the penis was practiced for centuries until it was suppressed in Christianity. Exquisite monuments to the male organ continue to be erected in the West, such as the Washington Monument. Did you know what it really symbolizes? We all understand its true meaning: the personification of male power.

How do you practice the worship of the phallus? Make love to his penis. Not with him, with his penis! Yes, yes, this is exactly what you should learn. Every man of rank secretly wants to taste a woman who is captivated by the power of his sexual organ.

At this moment, at the moment of the highest pleasure, your passion is pure – it is not dependent on his money or status or good appearance. But trust me: make love to one of his penis, and the man will love you for it.

In addition, there is really no better way to reduce the stress and stress of daily life than by taking a penis in your mouth and sucking on it. This is a sedative for an adult girl.

Perfect preparation for a blow job

How to prepare for oral sex? First: get on your knees, take this “big boy” in your arms and look at him. Have you ever actually done this? The penis is a wonderful thing. Each penis is a separate piece of art.

Second: Pay close attention to how the penis reacts when you lick, suck, and stroke it. Banal movements with the mouth – sucking the head, circular movements with the tongue around the corolla, playing with the bridle – always work. But the penis has its own special little zones. Find them.

How to get yours when you’re down

I call this the Chakra-Joker ploy. The number five chakra, located in the throat, is said to be the creative expression chakra.

Some women can achieve orgasm with fellatio, as there is indeed a physiological connection between the throat and vagina. If you are one of these women, this is your extra-sexual-energy zone. You feel a direct connection between the mouth or throat and the genitals.

There is a quick way to find out if you have the potential to cum by giving a blowjob. Suck on the head of his penis and notice how your throat reacts. If it seems to you that it barely shakes or vibrates while you suck, you will succeed.

As you suck, breathe deeply and rhythmically. Imagine that your breath is a circle of fire, sucked in by your nostrils, filling your mouth and throat, and exhaled through your genitals. Contract your PC muscle as you breathe and suck. By the way, do you practice Kegel exercises? A strong pubococcygeal muscle is needed, which can be trained with these exercises. Meet his gaze as he gets closer to ejaculating.

Experimenting with your sex life will help you penetrate even deeper into your partner and establish a strong spiritual and physical connection!