Why does my penis fall during sex?

It’s unpleasant when during sex, but this happens even to experienced womanizers. Don’t blame yourself and dwell on failure. So you can earn a neurosis, lower self-esteem and get self-doubt, this threatens to fail again.

You need to let go of the situation and calmly deal with everything.

The reasons are in the partner, and may not depend on her – a failure in the psycho-emotional sphere, with physical (physiological) disorders.

Why falls because of a partner

• Dryness of the mucous membranes of the vagina can cause pain due to rubbing of the head of the penis. The woman will feel bad too. The longer the coitus, the greater the likelihood of a decrease in potency due to pain. Such couples should use a lubricant .
• Temperament mismatch. Sexual desire in a partner occurs more often than in a man. Mechanical bringing the phallus to “combat readiness” with caresses, without proper desire and excitement from the side of the central nervous system, leads to the fall of the penis during the intimate process. Perhaps a man needs a longer recovery period from previous intimacy, or he is not naturally disposed to frequent sex. Nevertheless, the sexual temperament of the partners must match. Otherwise, the woman is not satisfied, and the man feels like a driven horse and is forced to take stimulant drugs.
• Suppression of a man during erotic games. A woman literally forces her partner to take the position she needs, to perform frictions faster or slower than he needs at the moment. Asks to delay orgasm and prolong the process as long as possible, suddenly withdraws. When a man is not ready for commands in bed, he is used to setting the rhythm of frictions himself , then his phallus inexorably falls.
• Non-standard or incorrect behavior of a girl during sex. For example, a very loud scream or even a howl, obscene language, a desire to hurt, aggression, bites. Any pain or shock from harsh sounds can lead to loss of erection. The girl is absolutely passive in bed, not feeling reciprocity, the man loses his desire and the member falls.
• The partner ceases to arouse desire, sexual intercourse takes place at the initiative of the woman, without passion on the part of the man. There is even a phrase – “to fulfill the conjugal duty.” Nobody likes debt.
• Odor mismatch. Starting sexual intercourse, the man became aroused by the visual picture, but in the process he began to catch an unpleasant smell for him and the excitement went away.

Physical impairment in a man

We will refer to this area everything that concerns health or physical moments of intimacy.

• Diseases of the genital area (STDs). Inflammatory processes always affect the blood flow, lead to edema, stagnation, disruption of hormone production, and are often accompanied by pain.
• Chronic diseases of organ systems, oncopathology . Chronic diseases affect the blood vessels. With cardiac pathology, all organs, including the genitals, will suffer from circulatory failure. This does not contribute to a full erection. Any disease requires immediate treatment, the appointment of therapy. Otherwise, though not immediately, they will lead to a decrease in potency. In diabetes mellitus, without regular intake of hypoglycemic drugs, blood vessels “clog”. The body spends a lot of energy fighting disease.
• Age changes. This can be both a decrease in male hormones, and an age-related change in blood vessels.
• Obesity, sedentary lifestyle and weak muscles in connection with this. During intimacy, people with increased weight quickly get tired, their heart may not be able to cope with the load, shortness of breath occurs and potency drops. When a person does not lift anything heavier than a spoon for a long time and is constantly in a sitting position, stagnation occurs in the small pelvis, in the genitals. A man is no longer capable of prolonged sexual intercourse, when entering the vagina, ejaculation occurs almost immediately. Either the member falls during the intimate process, while trying to delay orgasm and prolong coitus.
• Fatigue, overwork, insomnia and insufficient rest after work. A man who works conscientiously at 2-3 jobs, after night shifts, may not physically have enough strength for full sex.
• Bad posture. When a man lies on his back for a long time, blood flows from the phallus back to the body. Or during sex without a long change of position, legs, arms, other parts of the body become numb and this distracts from friction , the penis may fall.
• Injuries of the spine, damage to the genitals, the consequences of surgery on the penis.
• Sexual intercourse while intoxicated. Excitation is replaced by a sharp inhibition and sexual contact becomes impossible. Chronic abuse of alcohol, drugs, pills.
• Side effects of certain drugs, anabolics. After the end of the course of therapy, the rejection of anabolics, the phallus ceases to lose hardness during intima.
• Inappropriate contraceptive. Due to a decrease in the sensitivity of the head of the penis in a condom, an erection falls. It is necessary to choose another condom, thinner or switch to other methods of contraception (spiral, suppositories, pills, ligation of the fallopian tubes or spermatic cords).

Violation of the psycho-emotional state.

Emotions and the state of the psyche greatly affect the erection during intercourse.

• Sexual overexcitation or vice versa, lack of passion.
• Irregular sex life leads to a weakening of the erection. The “non-working” organ loses its strength, sexual abilities are greatly reduced.
• The habit of onanism. The woman is no longer needed. Having weaned from sensations when the penis moves inside the vagina, the man begins to lose excitement, the erection falls.
• Repulsive smells in the room, dirty apartment. There is a man who experiences passion and attraction, getting into someone else’s untidy apartment, begins to lose his erection. This is explained by the fact that in anticipation of intimacy, he has already managed to fantasize for himself what and how will happen. The fetid smell and clutter remove the romantic mood, expectations and reality did not match. Not only women are romantic, but men often fantasize about sex on clean sheets, a cup of coffee in a cozy kitchen after sex.
• Distractions – ringing phone, loud music, pets, etc.
• Partner change. It can be important for men to get used to a woman, to her character, to feel mutual understanding, and in a new sexual relationship it is not always possible to immediately establish intimacy. Shyness may play a role.
• The habit of sex under porn films. During normal sexual intercourse, without a visual stimulus in front of the eyes, at some point, arousal decreases.
• Asthenia due to depression, ARVI , apathy. In other words, not enough power.
• Fear of pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases. The resulting panic attack during intercourse immediately reduces the erection.
• Resentment, quarrels with a partner, stress at work. Psychological fatigue. The thoughts about problems that have arisen in the head, the experience of resentment in the process of intercourse affect the hardness of the penis.
• Young men without experience have problems in sex due to the fact that they are nervous, worried about the result, and this knocks them down.
• Special sexual needs. A man is drawn to the stronger sex, but he convinces himself of the opposite. During friction , it is important for a man to be spanked at a certain moment, to squeeze his buttocks or want to experience other similar caresses, if this does not follow, the excitement fades.

When is examination and treatment required?

In cases where the penis does not fall during intercourse regularly, no special treatment is required. It is enough to remove the reasons leading to such a phenomenon. After all, a man is capable of sexual intercourse, when excited, his penis acquires the necessary hardness for insertion into the vagina and performing frictions , which means there is no gross pathology.

If the loss of potency is due to a woman, then it is worth talking frankly with her. When the situation cannot be changed by talking, it remains to change the partner. Sexual life should take not the last place in the relationship, bring joy, not discomfort.

In case of physical health problems, it is worth taking treatment, strengthening muscles, losing weight, giving up bad habits, and sleeping at least 8 hours. Men’s vitamins, nutrition with a decrease in fast carbohydrates and the addition of protein to the diet will help.

After bringing the psycho-emotional state back to normal, sexual intercourse will also improve.
An alarming sign is the absence of a morning erection. It is necessary to consult with a urologist, andrologist, to undergo the examination prescribed by them.

Stimulants

When it is not possible to completely remove the causes of sexual intercourse disorders – a regular 8-hour sleep is not possible, stress at work continues, asthenia after an illness (influenza, SARS ), high sexual demands from a partner, etc., you can resort to medicines.

Taking pills in handfuls is not a good idea. Drugs increase potency, but do not affect the cause of the problems. Chemicals can have side effects that even perfectly healthy young people are not immune from. Medicines are contraindicated in serious diseases.

PDE-5 inhibitors

Viagra ( sildenafil ), Levitra ( vardenafil ), Cialis ( tadalafil ), Zidena ( udenafil ), Stendra , Avana ( avanafil ). Their action is based on blocking the enzyme phosphodiesterase-5, as a result of which the walls of the cavernous bodies relax and the penis is actively filled with blood after sexual arousal. The hardness of the member retains during the entire sexual intercourse. You need to follow the instructions and do not exceed the dosage.

The PDE enzyme is found in the tissues of various organs, and not only in the cavernous bodies of the penis. Small amounts are present in the lungs, stomach, kidneys, even platelets.

Its distribution in the body causes side effects – some people have them, others do not. The main side effects: a rush of blood to the face, headache, nasal congestion, heartburn, belching. Phenomena do not last long. All contraindications are indicated in the instructions, they mainly relate to cardiovascular pathology, renal and hepatic insufficiency.

Hormonal remedies

It is better if such serious drugs are prescribed by a doctor. Synthetic testosterone is used. A decrease in the level of androgens in the body occurs for various reasons: age, side effects of disease therapy, endocrine disorders, congestion in the pelvis.

The most commonly prescribed Nebido . The drug is administered once a month. Nebido helps to avoid a decrease in erection during intercourse, before ejaculation. Improves the quality of life, performance, recovery after physical exertion is faster. Can not be used for lesions of the liver, prostate. May increase blood pressure, cause aggressive behavior, acne.

Omnadren-250 has a prolonged action, it is taken every 2-3 weeks. Raises testosterone levels in men, has a positive effect on erection.

It is impossible with a sick liver, a weak heart. Serious side effects – a hypertensive crisis, edema, and an increase in fat mass are possible. As well as acne, swelling of the mammary glands, aggression.

Andriol is the safest of the steroids, taken every other day. It is prescribed by a doctor for impotence in conjunction with other drugs.

Dietary supplements, herbal and biologically active substances, vitamins

When the deterioration of erection is associated with fatigue, overwork, exhaustion of the central nervous system, chemical preparations are not required. It is enough to take products or tinctures containing tonic extracts: ginseng , golden root, kopek, Peruvian maca, Spanish fly, seahorse extract, deer antlers, etc.

Conclusion:

For high-quality sex, it is necessary to be physically healthy (remission or compensation of the condition in the chronics), observe the work-rest regime, do fitness, and eliminate bad habits.

What matters is which woman is around. If the couple has the same temperament, sexual habits do not irritate each other, there is mutual understanding, attraction to each other, then no additional stimulants will be required.