Secrets of the perfect blowjob
Oral sex is considered by many to be the most enjoyable for both sexes. It’s no secret that the touch of the lips and tongue can drive you crazy and quickly bring both women and men to orgasm. Do you want your chosen one to be crazy about you? Then master the art of blowjob!
Well, let’s study the very structure of oral sex. Typically, there are three stages: teasing , arousal build-up, and finishing (ejaculation, orgasm).
1. Teasing ( foreplay )
You should not think that absolutely all men like it when a woman jumps into the quarry on the move and immediately pounces on the genitals, without preparation starting active caresses. Just imagine, would you like it if your clitoris were actively stimulated without preparation? This would cause pain and dislike for such “caresses”. So it is with a blowjob. First you need to arrange a foreplay, caress the erogenous zones of a man, not immediately moving to his penis. Start from afar, gradually approaching your partner’s penis. Using
techniques of exciting kissing, caress his body from top to bottom. Once you get to the bottom of the torso, tease the man by caressing his lower abdomen, inner thigh. Let him begin to languish with desire. Kiss gently, nibble gently, tickle the skin with the tip of your nose, caress it with your hot breath – all these delicate caresses will lead to a quick erection. You can stroke the testicles with your tongue, or take them in your mouth and roll them gently, tickling your tongue.
How do you know that you shouldn’t delay with teasers anymore? Listen to the man and watch his body. If your loved one is breathing heavily, moaning and even verbally begs to take his penis in his mouth – fulfill his request. If the guy is silent, then you need to look at the reactions of the penis. The right moment will come when the penis becomes firm and hard and begins to tremble, or the man will move his pelvis towards your mouth. This is a sign – it’s time!
2. Build up arousal (blow job)
Having reached the penis, you do not need to immediately start active movement, sucking in his “dignity” to the least smile . Do not take a member in your mouth for the time being, but caress it with your tongue. The most sensitive areas of the penis are the areas of the frenum and crown. The bridle is located on the bottom of the head, it looks like a small convex groove. The crown is a convex “crown” around the head of the penis. It is best to caress the crown by pulling the foreskin and exposing the head.
However, not all men are pleased with the complete exposure of the head. It is important to listen to your partner’s wishes. To get the man to melt in your hands, use the tickling technique, quickly running the tip of your tongue along the bridle. When caressing the head, circular movements of the tongue along the contour of the head, which can be completed by sucking it, are a good option .
Do you want the man to focus as much as possible on your caresses? Then use visual deprivation by covering his eyes with a blindfold. Some guys are turned on by bondage, which makes it difficult for them to touch the desired girl. And it is at the second stage that you can actively use a variety of blowjob techniques. Well, aerobatics will be a deep throat blowjob, which almost every man dreams of.
3.Finishing (orgasm)
If you feel that your partner has very little time left to orgasm, then in no case slow down or stop. Continue to use the technique that resonates with your partner. Better even to speed up a little. Remember not to slide your teeth over the penis. Many men like it when women make eye contact during blowjobs. It strengthens the bond between partners and even helps guys feel even more excited. Of course, endlessly maintaining eye contact during oral sex is an impossible task. But from time to time it is worth throwing passionate glances at your beloved.
The approach of orgasm you will feel with your mouth on the tremors of the penis. Get ready for the release of semen and hold your breath for a moment so as not to choke. When a man finishes, do not immediately remove his penis from his mouth. Caress him a little more, but not so intensely.
To swallow or not to swallow? That is the question…
Feel free to talk to your partner beforehand (before the blow job) if you don’t want to swallow cum. It’s your right not to. Someone is morally unpleasant to swallow semen, someone is disgusted by the fact that semen has a bitter taste. Swallowing semen on an empty stomach can cause heartburn and even nausea . Remember that you are not obligated to do in sex what is disgusting or harmful to your health.
We do not advise you to immediately rush into the bathroom with a bullet and in no case should you spit out sperm loudly with a sour mine in front of a man. If you can swallow it, swallow it. If swallowing is unpleasant for you, then wait for the end of ejaculation and delicately retire to the restroom to spit. You can also open your mouth slightly and let the sperm drain, while continuing to caress the penis with your tongue and lips. In addition, you can use the pearl necklace technique. This is when a man ends up on the girl’s neckline. Well, someone likes a guy to cum on his buttocks, stomach or face. Everyone has different preferences. As you can see, there are many options in which the man is happy and you do not need to swallow his semen.
Why doesn’t the guy cum during the blowjob?
Often women complain that it is difficult for them to bring a man to orgasm with a blowjob. Why don’t the guys finish? We are women who are to blame for this, because we make mistakes that delay the climax. The following factors are the leaders of such a flaw …
1) The partner slows down. The pace drops, and so does the man’s excitement. If you get tired quickly, then you shouldn’t stretch your oral pleasures for long hours. Move to a fast pace right after a short foreplay. 2) The penis is too wet. Too much lubricant or saliva leads to loss of sensation. Just swallow excess lubricant. To avoid discomfort, special oral lubricants should be used during the blowjob . 3) The penis is too dry. The flip side of the coin is that a lack of lubrication also causes problems with arousal and erection. The male penis is less sensitive than the female clitoris, and yet it requires gentle handling. Therefore, movements on it with dry lips or hands can cause pain. 4) The partner ignores the requests of the man. If a guy begs to take a penis with his mouth deeper, and the girl pauses and starts playing with the penis with her hand, then she complicates the task for herself. Listen to your partner! And this is not just about explicit verbal requests. You also need to be able to “hear” the requests of his body: when he puts his hands on your head and brings you closer to him, when he starts moving his pelvis faster and faster, when he moans. Respond to his response. 5) The partner looks non-sexy. Forget about your complexes. He is with you, which means he likes you. It doesn’t matter if your breasts are small or saggy after nursing a baby. It doesn’t matter that there is extra fat on the stomach. Any man is pleased to see a sexy and liberated woman giving him a blowjob. No need to hide behind a blanket or turn off the lights. Remember our advice on eye masks? This advice is only good in metered portions. Don’t deprive a man of visual pleasure forever. Paint in front of him.