We all work in porn. just not everyone enjoys it

“Why do you go there?” – I may ask, although the answer is already known. Because you get money there, because you have to pay for the apartment with something, it is desirable to eat something, to dress in something. We all need money, we are attached to it to a greater or lesser extent. And we don’t always think about the place of work and its quality – the main thing is to get paid. And the main thing is that it should be something decent. Definitely not porn! We insist on this. Wait, but they also have you, they just have your brain. Do you think this is better? Once I came across an interview with an American pornographic actress. In it, she casually told an instructive story. “I am raising my son alone, therefore, only I am engaged in all his school and extracurricular activities,” the woman began her story. – We moved to a new state, my son went to a new school and that day came: I was invited to a parents’ meeting (or whatever it is called in America – author’s note). Then I still did not know what awaited me. As soon as I came to the class and sat down at my desk, I was surprised to find that all the men’s eyes were staring at me with interest. And then it dawned on me – damn it! They recognized me! The dads of my son’s classmates recognized me. They have seen films with my participation and, so to speak, know what is hidden under my skirt. The next parent meeting was mainly attended by women, mothers and wives, respectively. Unlike their fathers, they viewed me not with interest, but with anger and condemnation. And, to be honest, it bothered me a little. I haven’t even slept for several nights. I felt very bad, and I could not understand: what did I do to them, why did they look at me so judgmental? And then, you know, I somehow relaxed. As if I said to myself: well, even if I’m not as smart, supposedly clean as you, maybe I don’t understand something, I don’t hold a cool position in the company and I don’t have my own business. But! Your men jerk off to me, they want me and they get me. Something like this. After that, it became much easier for me to live in this city. It was like I allowed myself to be myself. And the townspeople seemed to feel it and began to treat me kindly. ” Okay, I confess, this is an old interview. Since its release, everything has changed somewhat. Today, the status of “porno actyris” will not surprise anyone and will not drive anyone into color. Today people have shaved off the layer of hypocrisy and blinkeredness and suddenly began to allow each other to live their lives, without looking back at someone else’s opinion and permission. At least in another, freer world. And when I say the free world, I don’t mean Europe, Australia or the United States. I always stand my ground – people are the same everywhere. And just freer people, separate individuals, without reference to cities, countries and nationalities, I mean.
  


 
 

 

Perhaps I don’t understand something, I don’t occupy such a cool position as you, but all the same, your husband has me. And he wants me.

Once I wondered why we are so derogatory and with disgust, perhaps, treat porn actresses and prostitutes? Where is it from? After all, if you think, what’s wrong with that? If you imagine that a woman really likes sex. And if this is her vocation, she gets a thrill from having sex. Is it difficult for you to imagine? True? So, if you imagine that she likes sex (and almost all of us like it), it means that she is doing what she loves, and she also gets money for it. Tell me, is this not what we are striving for? I mean finding what you love and getting paid for it. Isn’t that what we all want? So why do we have such contempt for the people who do this? What kind of exclusivity?

And in this matter I am outraged not so much by hypocrisy (it’s just understandable, we were taught from childhood to be good girls and not kiss until marriage), as this chosenness. Why do we teach each other and learn together from reputable psychologists to accept others, they say, everyone has their own truth, everyone has their own set of rules, their own attitude to life and worldview, respectively, too. We are taught this, right? So why do we spread this knowledge and skill only to our own kind? As if there are a select few (like we) who graduated from institutes and work as a head. And there are others, supposedly lower ones, who work with their hands or, do not bring Yarilo, other parts of the body, those parts that are below the navel. These are their rules, worldview and perception of life, we do not accept. They are dirty whores, they say. But why??? – I want to scream. If a person voluntarily decided to dispose of his body in this way, if this person likes this occupation, why not?
 

I hate my job, the boss constantly has my brain, because of this, I do not sleep and my eyes started twitching.

How many times have I heard this from friends and strangers. Every day they go to work like hard labor. Do what they don’t like. And it’s good if this activity does not harm anyone. But how many of us, without even thinking, are engaged in some dubious production: they write texts thoughtlessly, praising not the best person; come up with commercials for products that may not have the best effect on health; make estimates and form prices, thinking only about the profit and what their company can benefit from … We do it without much love, really. And in addition we get a dose of brain sex from the boss. Doesn’t it happen? “Why do you go there?” – I may ask, although the answer is already known. Because you get money there, because you have to pay for the apartment with something, it is desirable to eat something, to dress in something. We all need money, we are attached to it to a greater or lesser extent. And we don’t always think about the place of work and its quality – the main thing is to get paid. And the main thing is that it should be something decent. Definitely not porn! We insist on this. Wait, but they also have you, they just have your brain. Do you think this is better? It was with this thought that Alexey Pivovarov ended the release of the “Editorial” “Russian” porn: how this market works “. And just this thought prompted me to reflect. It is interesting that a generation has already grown up that does not perceive porn so categorically. “Yes, I do porn because I love sex,” says the 22-year-old who just graduated from college. “And I’m just for fun, you know. And yes, my friends know that I am a porn actress. ” Recently I heard that 30-40% of the world’s Internet traffic is porn. This is almost half! Interestingly, we’ve all watched porn at least once. We are watching, but the people who are filming there still remain for us not shaking hands. Maybe it’s time to let go already? Think to yourself: today, they will also have me, like you, only in the brain, let at least one of us enjoy this act.